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TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone

Shared in 196@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 days ago

kink rule

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SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 hours ago

Hahaha

Haha

Ha.

Haaaa…

Hmmm

Oh no.

captainlezbian@lemmy.world 16 hours ago

Hey, I resemble that comment…

HEXN3T@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 hours ago

Yk this is about how C-PTSD went for me

tigeruppercut@lemmy.zip 18 hours ago

Are they writing “Hump” in the 5th panel?

TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 hours ago

humor

WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 18 hours ago

Literaly why I’m a voraphile, not a joke.

AVincentInSpace@pawb.social 14 hours ago

You are under zero pressure to answer this, and please just ignore me if this is a personal question, because I would never ask you to relive your trauma, but I have to say I’m curious.

What real life event could possibly give you a fetish for being swallowed whole?

(Also, always nice meeting a fellow voraephile! Are you more a fan of the cozy safe snuggled up in tummy kind or the digested and dead kind?)

WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 12 hours ago

I was morbidly disturbed by…well, just thing getting eaten in Cartoons, until I got eaten in a dream.

TL;DR I developed a fetish before I knew what sex was.

(Also, I have gone softer I guess. But I need to be claimed and tasted at least, sometimes digested)

SkyezOpen@lemmy.world 13 hours ago

I had someone explain it to me that it’s the warm cozy constricted thing that does it for them, but to me it seems wild to jump to getting eaten.

If I tossed a heated blanket and weighted blanket on a vore enthusiast, would they feel cozy or horny? Both?

ObtuseDoorFrame@lemmy.zip 18 hours ago

No fair, my trauma made me asexual.

FluorideMind@lemmy.world 18 hours ago

Same… Except that one thing.

boobookittyfrick@lemmy.zip a day ago

I’ve always wanted to know why I’m so into anal. Like what happened to me

WraithGear@lemmy.world 20 hours ago

evolution having the pleasure nexus located within swinging distance of your back door

ForeverComical@lemmy.ca 21 hours ago

Religious upbringing?

myyass@lemmy.world a day ago

Not wanting to get someone pregnant or want them to get birth control? oh wait. well there could be other reasons.

maria ~@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 days ago

this has been a trend on 196.

not every kink is related to trauma.

libewa@feddit.org 11 hours ago

Sigmund Freud not impressed. (I really need to make reaction memes for this)

Gonzako@lemmy.world 20 hours ago

Oh, yeah defo. I can clearly see which kinks I’ve developed through trauma and which were just the blooming of my pervert mind

ChaoticNeutralCzech@feddit.org 2 days ago

The original says “humour”

Some humors can be kinks too

captainlezbian@lemmy.world 16 hours ago

Mostly blood

ChaoticNeutralCzech@feddit.org 14 hours ago

The only bleeding from a healthy body is menstruation and that’s not very sexy… Some excreted fluids are way more attractive but they’re not among the 4 classic humors…

NOT_RICK@lemmy.world 2 days ago

Reminds me of the main character in the show Furious.