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Mistakes@sopuli.xyz

Shared in 196@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 days ago

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Jo4ted@lemmy.zip 4 days ago

Moo :3

Mistakes@sopuli.xyz 4 days ago

They’re are other ways to reach me than being violently adorable in all of my posts comments

Jo4ted@lemmy.zip 4 days ago

But how’s everyone else supposed to know I’m violently adorable (˶˃ ᵕ ˂˶)

Maven (famous)@lemmy.zip 4 days ago

Its funny that you depicted yourself as the cow in this image meanwhile I, the superior foe, am depicted as IMPACT REGULAR 16PT FONT.

Mistakes@sopuli.xyz 4 days ago

Ok this made me laugh, nicely done

Maven (famous)@lemmy.zip 4 days ago

I wrote this comment and then looked back at the meme to see that I fully had the entirely wrong font in my head somehow.

Landless2029@lemmy.world 5 days ago

The destination may be the same but depending on the path you take it hits different.

Mistakes@sopuli.xyz 5 days ago

Oh absolutely. It’s not just that she likes to surrender control, it’s why she likes to surrender control. A high anxiety sub get entirely different treatment than a sub who has extremely high expectations and responsibility at work. Figuring out that mental side of things a few years back was a game changer.

AcidBurn@retrofed.com 4 days ago

More than that, for a good sub a punishment feels much worse than a reward, even if both are mechanically the same

Miisha ♀️@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 days ago

NEED
Every single time you post a meme, it resonates with me so fucking much. I wonder why 😆

Mistakes@sopuli.xyz 5 days ago

Probably because you’re the sort of good girl that I post these memes for?

Miisha ♀️@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 days ago

Waow…waow
Well why couldn’t you have met me two years ago, when I was still single? You could’ve watched me grow boobs, you could’ve snuggled up to my smooth-skinned body…and now you can’t cause I’m taken 😭