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Teagan@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 days ago
So uh… For future partners’ sake… What source do I redirect them to to make sure I don’t suffer more brain damage than I’m sure I already have from other things… 👀
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Mistakes@sopuli.xyz 8 days ago
I don’t have a source, but the idea is not interrupting airflow or blood flow to the brain.
Uriel238 [all pronouns]@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 days ago
When I was in the kink community breath control was a big no-no. There’s a significant enough risk of putting your partner in shock, amd in the 1990s police were not very understanding of death by heavy erotic play.
Of course the US may currently be in the stage Russia was in 2011 (and still is) of YOLO high-risk selfies.
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Psythik@lemmy.world 7 days ago
Yeah just huff nitrous during sex instead. It gets you the same pleasurable feeling (better, actually), and you won’t fucking die from oxygen starvation.
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Mistakes@sopuli.xyz 8 days ago
Most people that I’ve met as well as myself and my partners don’t actually do breath play of any variety. Just firm pressure applied to the sides of the neck, to reduce risk slightly. I understand it’s still not a completely safe activity, but we’re all consenting adults.
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nightlily@leminal.space 8 days ago
If the British government browsed Lemmy, they’d be very upset right now.
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captainlezbian@lemmy.world 8 days ago
They’d be upset anyways since there are trans people and people who understand that Israel is doing genocide in Gaza here
chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 days ago
This highlights a big flaw in the golden rule: people want different things
Uriel238 [all pronouns]@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 days ago
There are a lot of commonalities regarding what humans generally want for the non-specific ethics of reciprocity to be useful.
Even more so, what humans don’t want.
Or, for that matter, what non-human entities want. Thanks to the collapse of the rule of law at the federal level, businesses who can’t afford access to Trump are abandoning the US if they can’t pay the expected tribute to Trump, or can’t get in his good graces on ideological grounds. It turns out companies like an economy in which the rules are consistent for everyone.
tigeruppercut@lemmy.zip 8 days ago
Perhaps unsurprisingly this has been a thing in philosophy of ethics for awhile now. Copper rule gang rise up!
Copper Rule:
Do (or don’t do) unto others as they would (or would not) have you do unto them
Basically treat people how they want to be treated.
Potato Lover 💾 No brain found@lemmy.sdf.org 8 days ago
TIL: When people refer to choking during sex, it’s actually choking.
I thought it was just called that way, in a similar way to “choker” being a close-fitting necklace, just lightly pinning down someone by their neck. Not strangulation.
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Funkt4st1c@lemmy.world 8 days ago
Some people definitely want just like a hand necklace, gentle, no pressure. A LOT of people want to actually asphyxiate. My wife, for example.
This distinction has caused much confusion. Safer to assume the first option.
Btw you should tipi your hand a bit so they dont like, actually die. Were here to have fun and all.
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SillyDude@lemmy.zip 8 days ago
This is exactly what happened to me. I had never been choked, nor had I ever choked someone. Was making out with girl, she was on top of me, and then started choking me. I was so confused and horny. Eventually asked her about it and yes, that is what she wanted done to her. Like Jesus, just say so.
Edges@lemmy.zip 9 days ago
The comic is Hung Hang flashbacks
www.webtoons.com/en/canvas/…/list?title_no=85991
It’s a fun series